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[Nov. 8th, 2007|05:43 pm] |
Today was bittersweet. Or shall I say, sweet, then bitter, then optimistically back to sweet.
Warning: what you are about to read is extremely boring and real-world-esque.
So after you work 40 hour weeks for a few months, any excuse to get off early, take a day off, or come in late becomes a prized treasure in life. For example, last Friday I woke up at my usual time of 7:15 am and said "F this!" and went back to sleep. When I woke up at 8:30 and called in telling my boss I'd overslept and would be about an hour late, I didn't feel the least bit guilty. Sometimes you just need a break, man.
This week I have been unusually swamped at work. It's tax season, and since I deal with budgets and whatnot, the work seems never-ending. Additionally, our last receptionist got preg-o and quit, so I'm filling in for the menial tasks of going to the bank, picking up the mail and running other various errands that take up about an hour of my workday. Yes, it is quite humbling to know that you have a degree from Georgia Tech, yet you're still at the bottom of the totem pole when it comes to doing the work that no one else wants to do. Haha. Whatever...I'm making a killing in mileage pay.
Anywho, like I said, swamped all week, blah blah blah, and I had a doctor's appointment today at 2:30. Normal people don't get excited about doctor's appointments, but I present to you an airtight argument:
- My appointment was at 2:30. When it ended before 4, I went home an hour early instead of going back to work. I'd already put in for the time off, so I treated myself to this mediocre indulgence. I've already had three beers! Hooray beer!
- My optometrist is the hottest man alive and I've had a super huge crush on him for about 11 years. So basically, I wore my most scandalous work clothes, put on extra makeup, and even plucked my eyebrows knowing that he was going to be in such close contact with the eyes that would be swooning over him this afternoon.
- OK so I don't really have any other reasons.
I was all excited about this appointment and ecstatic when I got to leave work this afternoon, but then they dropped the bomb on me.
Someone didn't get vision insurance when she was applying for benefits, and then it came back to bite her in the ass! Vision appointment: $240. Contacts: $170. Yep...that's right, $410 on a silly eye exam and some contacts.
W T F ? !
Whatever, it's OK. Thankfully, I can cover it, but gosh darn! That's a LOT of money!
2 beers later, I get a call from my mom. She's all excited because she got the prestigious "gated parking" right in front of her office at UF after four years of being on the waiting list. This means she will be able to sleep in an hour later every day because she won't have to hunt for a far-away spot early in the AM. I was hesitant to be a Debbie Downer with my financial news, but I told her anyway. Alas, she said, your major medical insurance should provide compensation for your eye exam! Yayyyyyyy!!! I'm going to call the doctor in the morning and see if I can get some (and hopefully most) of my money back!
I'm going to my sister's this weekend for my niece's birthday party. She's already 8. It seems like only yesterday I was getting pulled out of 9th grade English to go up to Atlanta to watch her birth.
Tear :'(
Bill is coming along for the ride. This will be the first time he meets my sister and her fam, and also the first time he has major exposure to my mother and stepfather. I am praying for his well-being.
He has started off on a good foot, though. He emailed me yesterday to say that the only time he could get a haircut this week was tomorrow at 5, and asked if we could leave early Saturday instead. At first I was a tad miffed, but then I realized his urgency for getting a haircut this week stemmed from his fear of making a bad impression on my mother with his normal shaggy coif. He's right; although his long blonde locks are my favorite of his physical features, it would have made a bad impression on Mom. And for being that thoughtful, I don't mind leaving a few hours later. |
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[Sep. 19th, 2007|07:03 pm] |
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Life has changed a lot for me in the past few months. Even though I live at home, I kinda feel like an adult. Other than rent/my parents' mortgage payment and some food, I am on my own dollar now. At first I was afraid of the independence, but I'm getting used to it and even starting to like my humble disposable income. Last week my mom was in town with some friends, and I actually bought her lunch with my own money. She was so excited that she made me pose for a picture with the check and my debit card.
Speaking of pictures, I just bought a Nikon D40 digital SLR camera off eBay today. Bill and I go on lots of adventures....to the ocean, the river, the woods, etc., so I wanted a really good camera to start capturing all the awesome stuff we see. Plus with his artistic eye and my technical expertise, I think we might make a decent photographer. For example, when we went swimming at Ginnie Springs (near UF) a few weeks ago, it was raining so he steered his boat under a canopy. As we were resting, Bill noticed a spiderweb with a badass spider in it. It looked freakin sweet with all the raindrops on the web and stuff, but when I took a picture with my low-quality point and shoot, the result was just not satisfactory.
But next time, it will be. MUAHAHAHAHAHAHA.
I've decided I'm going to go back to get a Master of Arts in International Business from UF next year. I absolutely love the people I work with, but the job itself, eh, not so much. A day at work either entails 6+ hours of surfing the internet or a full day of frustration involving menial tasks. Sometimes I am chronologically challenged, but rarely am I mentally challenged.
Reason number 398 why I love Bill: I told him I wanted to go to UF to get my masters next year, and he gives me a high five and says "I'm so proud of you, baby."
Ironically, Bill was the reason I decided to go back to school so soon. When we were riding back home from fishing one night, we were talking about my future and he started encouraging me to use my opportunities and go off to school...to do the best thing for me. Well, what with my irrational abandonment issues, I didn't really like this perspective. I said "What if the best thing is for me to be with you?" Then he says "Anne, we'll always be together, but the best test of our relationship might be the temporary distance."
It took me a few days to swallow, but I eventually realized Bill was onto something. I started my application on Monday. This is not the time to put my life on hold for a man, but his support sure does make me want to keep him around...
in other news, I f-ing love my dog. I try to spend as much time with Pepper as possible- mornings when I'm getting ready, lunch, and the evenings, but I spend pretty much every night at Bill's so I feel like I'm neglecting him. I thought he might start ignoring me and hang around my parents more, but no, the Peps is tried and true. As I sit here writing this entry, he chooses not to be in the living room with the rest of my family, but rather laying in bed with me.
He's going to be a pirate for Halloween. Arrrrrgh.
The Wilhoites had quite a scare this summer. After a mammogram, doctors found a malignant lump in Penny's right breast. She had a mastectomy a couple of weeks ago, and praise the Lord, that cancer is gone. What a relief. The crisis brought our family closer together and really made us realize how much our friends and family care about us. Even my office "moms" poured their hearts and prayers out my family and me.
Even though I freaking hate my job sometimes, I could not ask for better colleagues. In the short time I've been there, they've already become like family to me.
My next Atlanta cameo shall be on October 20th. I think that's the Homecoming game? Yes? Anyone wanna give me a free student ticket? Yes?
Alright I better go. I have to pee.
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[May. 16th, 2007|05:52 pm] |
So I haven't updated in forever. I never really had time at school, or just wanted to do other things with my free time I suppose. And I didn't really know what to say.
I graduated from Tech. Woot. To embrace my Tech-ness, I've also begun to use the word "woot" on a regular basis.
I went on a cruise to the Bahamas and Key West last week. It was muy relaxing. Nothing crazy happened, but I did get the chance to go snorkeling and kayaking for the first time. I actually liked Key West better than the Bahamas. The architecture was gorgeous, and their Key Lime pie was probably the best dessert I've ever tasted. Good dessert wins in my book any day of the week.
After working dillegently for four years, I am using my degree to make labels and organize folders for a local real estate management firm here in Valdosta. I couldn't be prouder. They can't really give me too much responsibility knowing I'm going to leave in less than three months, so I'm not too disappointed. Everyone at the company is really nice. There about 20 employees, 17 of which are women. Needless to say, it's an empowering environment being around all these successful and smart women. Since they know I'm going to law school, they also give me extra time during work to review all their legal documents and explain to me the processes that they have to go through for closings and purchases. By the end of the summer, I will know whether or not I want to go into real estate law. I highly doubt it, but you never know. It's nice to be around such nice people who want to help me. So much different from Tech :-P Then again, there are no juicy office gossip and steamy office romances. Everyone's just too nice for that I suppose. I can live with the trade-off. |
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[Apr. 8th, 2007|08:43 pm] |
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OK, I can't even fake an update. The only reason I'm posting is to say this:
I GOT INTO LAW SCHOOL!!!!
I got my first letter on Friday from Mercer. True, it's my last choice (tuition is about a kajillion dollars a year and it's in the uber lame town of Macon), but it's a respectable law school and if it's my only choice I'll happily go there. Plus there are some good points:
- It is a top-tier law school. It's not nearly as good as the schools a lot of other people are getting into, but it's still good.
- It has the number 1 legal writing program in the country, and I love writing of all varieties.
- It's a small private school, which means individualized attention from professors and an environment conducive to bonding with my colleagues.
- It's only a bit over an hour from Atlanta, so I would probably be back here quite frequently.
- It's also closer to home, and I could get there without having to drive through Atlanta traffic.
I applied to three other schools: UF, FSU and Georgia State, and I should hear from them by the end of this week. I sure hope so, because Mercer's asking for a hefty deposit by April 23rd and I really don't want to give it to them if I get in somewhere else. I'm just so relieved I have a desirable option for my future! |
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[Dec. 27th, 2006|05:38 pm] |
So here I am at home, where I've been for the past two-ish weeks. I've begun to notice a pattern about coming home for the winter break: I always think it's the greatest place in the world for about 1.5 weeks, and I wonder why I ever left this cozy little town to go to college in the big, bad city. A few days after Christmas, I realize that I'm doing the same, boring things every day and am going to the same, boring places. I also realize that while sleeping in and watching TV for hours at a time is fun for a while, the fun wears off and I'm left with a feeling of uselessness. However, these feelings are good. Coming home after a stressful semester is a nice, relaxing and much needed hiatus, but the boredom that ensues motivates me to come back to school again in January.
Christmas was nice. The best gifts I gave were an 8 X 10 picture of my Dad, me and my newly-reunited sister Vicky (to my Dad) and a calendar of 14,000 things to be happy about to my mom. The rest were good gifts, too, but pretty boring. Christmas wasn't a huge gift-giving extravaganza this year. I like it better that way, because as cliche as it sounds, it helped us focus more on the family time and less on the stress of buying gifts.
I got a few little things (books, wine glasses) and a new laptop. Now I know I said Christmas wasn't a big deal, and here I am getting a laptop, but I wouldn't have asked for that if I didn't need it. My old one bit the dust a few weeks ago. Plus, I'll be able to put Windows Vista on my new one when it comes out. AND it's pretty light-weight and portable, so I can take it with me to class to play games and check ema...I mean, take notes, during class. It's a Dell Inspiron E1405 in case you're curious about it. I had a Dell before, and hey, it lasted 5 years, so I decided to stick with them this time, too.
I also got a dog. But he was free, and I gave him to myself. An old friend of mine from high school was keeping him short-term until she could find him a home. Relatives of the family she babysits for were moving to Japan and couldn't take him with them. I stepped into her apartment, and when he jumped up to greet me, I was in love. I took him home with me two days before Christmas, and he is the best :) His name is Pepper, he's about a year old, and he is a poodle/maltese mix. Yes, he looks like one of those sissy dogs that the celebrities tote around in their purses, but he is very well-tempered and well-behaved, friendly, playful, and he's the softest dog I've ever touched! He's not all yippy and loud like other obnoxious prissy dogs of his nature. Not to mention, malteses and poodles are two of the most hypo-allergenic dogs on the planet, so I'm not allergic to him one bit! He's the best gift I could have ever asked for. I hope you will all come over to meet him at my house and play with him. I would post pictures of him, but my camera is being fixed in New York right now.
So this Christmas and this year have turned out to be overall amazing. Sometimes I get down on myself for not having a job and law-school acceptance yet, but I know that will come with time, if it's meant to be.
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[Dec. 21st, 2006|11:06 pm] |
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1. What did you do in 2006 that you had never done before? Visited Europe, lived in another country
2. Did you keep your new years' resolutions, and will you make more for next year? I wanted to be more healthy? I don't remember, but I at least eat healthier now.
3. Did anyone close to you give birth? No...not that I know of.
4. Did anyone close to you die? No, thankfully.
5. What countries did you visit? Spain y Portugal
6. What would you like to have in 2007 that you lacked in 2006? A job, acceptance into law school, self-sufficiency
7. What date from 2006 will remain etched upon your memory, and why? Two: June 23rd- Stepped foot in Spain Whatever date Brian took me to the Sun Dial OPA formal
8. What was your biggest achievement of the year? Being elected and serving as president of OPA
9. What was your biggest failure? Sucking at relationships...yet again.
10. Did you suffer illness or injury? I get sinus infections, and I had some women's troubles, but nothing serious.
11. What was the best thing you bought? My trip to Barcelona
12. Whose behavior merited celebration? My dad, for finally reuniting with his daughter that he hadn't seen in almost 20 years
13. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed? Not going there! But it's not me.
14. Where did most of your money go? Food food and food. And sometimes alcohol and clothes, but mostly food.
15. What did you get really, really, really excited about? Spain, coming home, the Vagina Monologues, OPA sisterhood retreat, and a new dog that I'm getting on Saturday!
16. What song will always remind you of 2006? Shakira's Hips Don't Lie...it was always playing in Spain. I don't love that song, but hearing it reminds me of Spain, so I love hearing it.
17. Compared to this time last year, are you: i. happier or sadder? much happier ii. thinner or fatter? Thinner--about the same iii. richer or poorer? also same
18. What do you wish you'd done more of? Wish I would have done more sight-seeing in Spain
19. What do you wish you'd done less of? Eat...
20. How will you be spending Christmas? Same way as always- here, there, and everywhere in between
21. How will you be spending New Years Eve? Probably with my old friends from Valdosta
22. Did you fall in love in 2006? Kind of...I mean, I was already in love though.
24. What was your favorite TV program? Grey's!
25. Do you hate anyone now that you didn't hate this time last year? No, of course not. Hatred is a waste of time.
26. What was the best book you read? Galapogos by Vonnegut
27. What was your greatest musical discovery? Ben Folds, reggaeton...weird I know
28. What did you want and get? Self-satisfaction
29. What did you want and not get? A 4.0 semester...although I did just make a 3.8, so I got pretty close
30. What was your favorite film of this year? The Pursuit of Happyness
31. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you? My LBAT friend made me a vodka filled watermelon and jello shots and we went out to eat. I am 22 now. I was in Madrid at the time, so it was my first birthday away from home, and obviously away from my home country.
32. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying? Trust
33. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2006? This question makes me giggle. I conceptualize myself in jeans and a t-shirt, hair in a pony-tail, glasses, and a tad brush on of make-up before heading to class.
34. What kept you sane? My friends...my best friend ;)
35. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most? Barack Obama
36. What political issue stirred you the most? Maybe it's not a political issue, but I hate turning on the news and watching four ex Miss USA's talking about the Donald Trump/Rosie O'Donnell feud. Come on, guys. Show me something worth watching.
37. Who did you miss? Everyone, especially my friends, family and Brian, when I was in Spain. But luckily they were there when I got back :)
38. Who was the best new person you met? CNL, Alex, and Professor Labarca
39. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2006: Stop being so damn philosophical and self-righteous and do something productive instead. 40. What song lyrics sum up your year? Oh, hell I don't know...I'll get back to you on this one |
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[Dec. 13th, 2006|11:47 pm] |
So, my life has kinda been falling apart lately. Here's why:
- Someone backed into my car, while it was parked in front of my dad's house, the weekend before last at the ACC game. Now in addition to the many scrapes that were already on the old Honda, there's a huge, ghastly dent on the passenger side.
- As I was driving to the ACC game, I got a speeding ticket for going 64 IN A 55. Now that...is some bullshit.
- Last Friday at Rose Night, I dropped my camera on the carpet and now it's broken. I went online to retrieve my bank statement as a proof of purchase for the camera so I could ship it off to be fixed, but guess what I did when I purchased the camera? Paid half of it in cash. Hopefully they'll believe my not-enough-money-in-the-bank excuse and will let me off the hook....
- Also on Friday, my debit card fell out of my ID holder, so I had to cancel it and order a new one. Luckily, the SunTrust people are really nice and are going to send me a new one free of charge. I learned about velcro at that point and velcroed the ends of my ID holder together so this issue will not be an issue in the future.
- Umm...it's finals week. I've had two already, and one more to go on Friday. They are going...okay.
- My computer died today. She was five years old. May she rest in peace. She led a long and honorable life, and she will be missed.
It's cool though. I'm chillin. All of these problems are fixable...I've got good insurance, the ticket won't set me back that much, I'm banking on the sympathy of those at Nikon, I've got enough cash on hand to cover me till my debit card comes in, and I'M GETTING A NEW COMPUTER FOR CHRISTMAS!!!! Woohoo! So that's where you, the reader, come in. I want to get another laptop (but you can suggest otherwise if you'd wish), slightly portable (so not too heavy), reasonably priced, and dependable. It does not have to be ultra high performance or anything...
Any suggestions? |
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[Nov. 16th, 2006|02:11 am] |
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But I just get the urge to write when I have a lot going on. I guess it's because I actually have something to write about.
Big deadline week for OPA. I got everything turned in on time, but I still need to check on other people...Rose Night is coming up. Need to get that in precise order. Sorry thinking out loud.
Made a B on my last Operations test. That means solidified B in the class, and even if I make a 100 on the final (which is optional), I'll still have a B in the class since it's only worth 20%. I'm kind of happy about it, though. It's one less final to worry about. Hopefully I can make all A's in my other classes. I'm just kind of bummed. This was going to be my masterpiece: a 4.0 semester. Just one more chance after this...
Law school apps are ready to go but temporarily on hold while I finish up with tests this week. Top choice is UGA, second is State. I want to stay in state where it is cheap because I have no money and do not wish to accumulate masses of student loans.
Last home game this weekend :(
Tired. Going to bed. Sorry for sentence fragments and poor grammar. Incapable of thinking complete thoughts. |
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[Nov. 7th, 2006|11:00 am] |
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| drunk after lsat |
[Sep. 30th, 2006|06:42 pm] |
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So i took the lsat today and then i drank because i hate the lsat. the lsat is the bane of my existence. i decided that going to tech didn't make me feel inferior enough, so i just had to do something else to seal the deal. well, the lsat definitely did that for me. |
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